Dining Alone by Houck Portraits
Dining Alone by Houck Portraits

The summer can be a lonely time for some with family and friends disappearing off on summer jaunts and leaving behind those that may be committed to business or away travelling for work. Equally some people have jobs like teachers or airline staff and shift workers that allow them time off in the week/holidays when everyone else is working.

While people are happy to sit in a cinema, go to the gym or even travel the world on their own, solo dining can still be a daunting thought and strike fear into the heart when we contemplate eating alone in anything more sophisticated than a Pret a Manger without a companion.

Instead of shying away from the challenge, look on this time as an ideal opportunity to maybe treat yourself to menus and restaurants that you have been keen to try but perhaps have not been able to tempt others to try with you. Follow our top tips courtesy of Maiden-Voyage.com below, and book your table for one with confidence!

10 Top Tips for Dining Alone

1. Dine at lunch-time or early in the evening – when it’s less busy you may not feel so awkward and it looks like you are on business.

2. Ask for a seat facing out into the room rather than sitting right in the middle of the restaurant. Another good option is the patio or terrace if the weather is fine – somehow sitting outside on your own seems more natural. A window seat also allows you to avoid making awkward eye contact with other diners.

3. Dress confidently but without drawing too much attention to yourself – business like is a good option.

4. Take something to read with you. A book, kindle or even ipad is not frowned upon when you are by yourself – infact check first to see if the restaurant has wifi as this is a sure sign it is single diner friendly.

5. Don’t be afraid to engage the waiting staff in conversation – they can be amusing company and they will look after you well if you are smiley and chatty.

6. Take the plunge and invite another sole diner to join you – the worst that could happen is they say no but they may end up an interesting contact.

7. Take a notepad as a prop – you will look like you are writing a review, even if you are just doodling your to-do list. They may think you are a food inspector and you could get exceptional service!

8. Don’t feel obliged to join another table or sit on a lousy table you may feel awkward at (i.e. by the toilets or entrance).

9. Enjoy your own company – lose your inhibition and indulge yourself in details about the room (and other diners) you may have missed if focusing on a companion.

10. Savor the food – you are more likely to enjoy and appreciate your meal when you are concentrating fully on it rather than talking through it, and indulge your whims – after all you are only paying for one!

Dining alone is really just a change in mind-set. Showing you are happy in your own company and enjoying the food and ambiance, it may well be other diners who will be looking across and envying you – and it could become a new personal indulgence!

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Our thanks to Maiden-Voyage.com the female friendly free membership travel site for their advice in writing this blog post.

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14 replies on “10 Top Tips for Dining on Your Own

  1. I love dining alone as it is a rare thing. I always carry a book in my bag and can pass hours reading in peace with food and drink on hand!

  2. Some great tips., thank you. I’ve grown more confident dining alone in restaurants over the years (there is only so much room service you can take!). I used to feel very uncomfortable and self conscious. But like most things it got easier the more braved it. Talking to the staff and bringing something to read definitely helped. Indeed these days I spend so much time checking in and Instagramming the venue and food when I do eat out that it can be a blessing to find myself dining alone!

  3. Some great tips 🙂 I usually have a notepad and pen on me for moments when ideas strike – and dining alone is a great time to let my mind wander … little did I think that staff might assume I’m writing a review and deliver extra special service as a result!

  4. I don’t think I can say I ‘like’ it but I don’t mind it and these tips will help me further! Like the food inspector tip – definitely will do that one! Great tips and I always find it easier when you do engage with the staff as you then also look like a regular (even if you are not) and not so ‘alone’!

    Thanks and happy dining…..

  5. I do a lot of travelling on my own – for fun too, not just business. I’m pretty social. In Santa Fe I invited a couple to join my table when the restaurant was full at lunchtime and at CES in Las Vegas I had a very nice platonic dinner with a male business traveller I met at the top of the Stratosphere who was wearing his conference badge. We discussed that we were on our own but could have dinner together and obviously pay for our own bills. We had a good conversation about technology then went our separate ways. When I’m on my own I have a book, my iPhone or mini-notebooks to write in for all my projects.

  6. Lovely blog, thank you. I used to hide in my hotel room and order room service, but now I make a point of eating out on my own. I’ve learned to enjoy the solitude, the opportunity for mindful eating, and soaking up the ambience while people-watching. I encourage all my clients to do the same. It’s part of keeping the sanity when traveling, we are social beings after all. Again, thank you. I’m going to re-blog this to my tribe!

  7. Reblogged this on Jayne McAllister and commented:
    These are important points. Rather than hiding in your hotel room and living off room service, take the time to eat out on your own, enjoy the solitude and opportunity for mindful eating.

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